Rituals for a Hot Day of Rest

It’s the final post of our Sexy Shabbat Series! Miss out on some of the hotness? See all the posts from the series here.

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As we approach our big finish, we wanted to do something special for you, our sexy Shabbat seekers, our challah-eating harlots, our kiddush-making, booty-shaking, ham-oooooohtsy-saying lovers!

We leave you with these four sexy Shabbat-inspired hands-on ‘rituals’ to help your kiddush cup runneth over ;)

Shabbat ShalOOOOOOOOOOmmmmmm, y’all!

 

Shabbat candles won't be the only hot pair tonight...

 
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Almost every Jewish holiday starts with lighting a candle, and Shabbat is no exception. But instead of just leaving a pair on the mantle, what if you took a couple-o-flames on a field trip to someplace a little more exciting... like, say, the bedroom?

That's right! We’re talking 'bout wax play! Let it burn, baby!

*But not literally: Before you strike up the matches — do yourself and your honey a favor by performing a quick Google search to educate yourself on how to go about it safely. 

 

Use that double soul to play a sexy new role!

 
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Ancient Jewish teachings say that on Shabbat, from sunset to sunset, Jews have the privilege and pleasure of temporarily housing inside their bodies a whole second soul.  It is said, that the purpose of this additional soul, is to invite a sharpening of the senses, to feel the Shabbat delight. 

Oh, we'll feel some Shabbat delight, alright.

So let's do a bit of exploring.... who is this second soul, anyway? What does she wear? How does she sound? What’s her name? And, most importantly, what turns her on? Same q’s go for your partner’s second soul.

Fire up your imagination, dig into that costume closet, lock the bedroom door, and find out!  

 

♪ Rubbin' sticks and stones together makes the sparks ignite, and a hot Shabbat with you is gettin' so exciting ♫

 
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This Saturday afternoon, slip away with your bae for a well-deserved “nap.” Or, don’t get out of bed in the first place! Just let Saturday morning sliiiiiide on into a delightful day of dancing in the sheets.

Get to know your boothang in the biblical sense in the light of day this Shabbat.

Sky rockets in flight...
...Sexy shabbat delight

 

The pleasure’s all hers.

 
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In addition to the old “be fruitful and multiply” commandment and corresponding (double) mitzvah, did you know Judaism has another sex mitzvah that’s pretty much unabashedly feminist?

It’s all right there in Exodus 21:10, queens! It says that a husband is commanded to sexually satisfy his wife.

We'll say it again.... a husband is commanded to sexually satisfy his wife!

I mean... law is law...

This passage also says it’s a husband’s duty to get it on with his wife even if the couple might not be able to make babies.

Whoa, Judaism, way before your time on that one!

So next time Shabbat rolls around, one way you and your boo can honor this sacred time is by making (at least) one Shabbat lurvemaking sesh all about female pleasure. If you’re in a mixed gender partnership, that means it gets to be all about you, womangirl. If you’re in a same-gender partnership, it’s an ideal opportunity to have an intentional dialogue about What (You Two) Women Want, in bed, on the kitchen counter, or under the shower — whatever lights your fire! 


 This concludes At The Well's Sexy Shabbat Series for the month of Av.

See all the posts from the series here, and be sure to share the love with your friends.


 

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